Dress Code: Is it sexist and confusing? (Editorial)
Let’s be honest; school dress codes can be a little unrealistic, especially for girls. Many argue that school dress codes teach girls that they are a distraction to learning. I agree with this statement to an extent. Guys should be taught to not look at girls inappropriately, but girls should not be exposing everything so that guys don’t have a choice.
However, girls do have to follow a lot more restrictions, and some are unrealistic. A major rule is the shorts to fingertip length. In reality, stores rarely sell shorts that length. If schools are going to be so restricting, why don’t they just say no shorts. Period. Or use a reasonable inseam length. Some girls have longer arms, and long legs, so they can’t wear any pairs of shorts.
Another common rule is the “no bra straps showing.” What’s so bad about seeing a bra strap? Everyone knows that girls wear them, and they don’t show anything inappropriate. It’s not like guys are going to stop and say, “Dang, that’s one fine bra strap!” And if they do, then it’s the guy’s own fault for being distracted.
A good example of the annoyance of school dress codes, is the Lexington dress code incident. On the last day of school, a senior wore a dress ½ of an inch too short. That’s right, ½ an inch. It was the last day of school, and she wanted to feel pretty. Since she had worn the same dress before, and hadn’t gotten in trouble for it, she thought it was no big deal. She was sent home to change.
Just let this incident sit in your head for a while. Most dress code policies are based on the teacher’s opinion. Believe it or not, our school does this. In the handbook, it states, “Administrators may impose restrictions when…[students wear] immodest [clothing] in any respect.” My definition of immodest will be different than the administrators. Or anyone for that matter. Because the dress code is unclear, something that seems normal to you may not seem normal to a teacher. For example, I was talking to someone about how she almost got written up due to a clothing opinion. She wore a white shirt, but you could see her bra straps under it. Her teacher called her out, and said that it wasn’t dress code. Her bra straps were showing under a “transparent” shirt. Luckily, she didn’t get written up. Yet the fact that the teacher used their opinion on immodesty, just shows that the dress code isn’t consistent. I think we can all agree that seeing a bra strap under a shirt is not pink slip worthy.
The handbook also states, “When in doubt, cover up.” How far do we have to go just to make sure we don’t get written up? Students are supposed to feel comfortable at school, but dress codes restrict this. That being said, I do think we should look appropriate and well kept, but how far do we have to go? Especially if our dress code is based on opinion from administrators.
Everyone is different. Clothing styles will be different. The one thing that remains the same is how frustrating school dress codes can be. So what do you think? Are dress codes a hassle, or easy to follow?
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Meg McMurdy • Feb 3, 2015 at 1:50 pm
This is AWESOME!! Couldn’t have said it better myself… why should I be restricted in what I can wear to school because of a boys inability to concentrate on what he is supposed to concentrate on.
Laura Ferriman • Jan 13, 2015 at 11:01 am
This article speaks a lot for the girls, which I am sure we can all agree with. Some school dress policies are a little ridiculous. We shouldn’t be sent home for the littlest reasons such as our shoulders showing, or a bra strap, or if a dress isn’t finger tip length. Unless it is inappropriate to an extent that it reveals way more than necessary, then I think girls shouldn’t be sent home. Sending us home is only taking away from our education which isn’t fair.
Levi Negley • Dec 2, 2014 at 1:07 pm
The dress code is confusing and some of the things on it are unnecessary. So I’m glad I’m getting out of school this year, I cant imagine what they will put on it next.
Francesca DiPaola • Nov 3, 2014 at 8:30 am
This has been a problem that has bugged me for a long time. The dress code is based off making it easier for boys to learn, so rather than teaching teenage boys self restraint and respect for women, they tell girls to cover up. This is perpetuating rape culture, because we are learning that it is a girls job not to distract the boys, and it is not the boys fault if they can’t restrain their animalistic need for looking at a girls skin. It isn’t the boys fault, it’s the girls, that is what we are teaching our children, and we are maintaining ancient ideas of oppressing women from self expression, it is a sexist idea, and it should no longer be present in our schools.
Laura McIlhenny • Oct 31, 2014 at 11:04 am
I agree with this 110% thanks for expressing my frustration and the frustration of many other girls!
Gretchen Murphy-Zug • Oct 31, 2014 at 11:03 am
I agree a lot with what this article has to say. I agree that is sexist, half of the rules are directed at girls. But, I also agree that Is high school and you shouldn’t be revealing. The inconsistence is what is hardest for me to wrap my mind around. What you wear that could be written up and what is vastly different.
John • Oct 31, 2014 at 10:58 am
I agree with this article for the most part. Just the fact at most of the pink slips you hear about for clothing are girls with shorts just a little to short. I’ve personally only ever seen one guy written up for the shirt he was wearing.
Harry Wendelken • Oct 31, 2014 at 10:54 am
About the shorts thing; I suppose that they don’t ban shorts outright because there are some shorts that are long enough. But otherwise, great article.
Aleeshia • Oct 31, 2014 at 10:06 am
We all have different tastes in clothing some like to cover up more then others.
Aleeshia • Oct 31, 2014 at 10:05 am
I dont think that we should have a dress code because it seems no matter what we wear there is always going to be something that catches the teachers eyes. We all have different tastes in clothing, some are covered up more then others.
Harry Wendelken • Oct 31, 2014 at 10:59 am
@Aleeshia
It give’s students a valid defense when there punished for something that doesn’t break the standard rules.
Kelsey Miller • Oct 31, 2014 at 10:02 am
I 100% agree with this article. It’s not our fault that guys look at us and make comments. Showing bra straps and shoulders should not be a problem. They need to make the dress code more clearly, especially for girls.
Kaleigh Balcavage • Oct 31, 2014 at 9:19 am
You hit all the right points and opened my eyes to new perspectives! Great article.
Brittany Stephenson • Oct 30, 2014 at 10:07 pm
The school dress code is really just talking to the female audience of Carlisle High School. It is like they are saying that we are the distraction to education when that is not even the case. Regardless there should always be boundaries to what people can and cannot wear but some pieces of clothing should be acceptable for the fact that it is not hurting anyone. The controversy on spaghetti straps can be debated for a long time whether it is appropriate or not. A strap can not distract a boy from his school work neither can a skirt that is not exactly finger tip length.
Alexandria Shope • Oct 30, 2014 at 2:43 pm
When I get dress for the morning I think of what would be appropriate to wear. Then I think about if I wore this in front of my parents would they approve? Some dress codes I do feel are outrageous. I agree with the short dress code. With good judgment students should be fine with wearing shorter shorts. I am a person that is very tall and has long arms and I will say that it is very hard to find shorts. The stores are NOT selling shorts that are finger tip length, but what I think is professional and in good taste I decide to buy them and wear them for school.
I will say some girls come to school wearing some things that are not in good taste. Meaning they wear revealing clothes. This is just for attention. Administration who really hit hard on the dress code are just trying to create a safe, comfortable, and appropriate environment.
Karessa W • Oct 30, 2014 at 10:24 am
I agree totally on everything. Use girls have to do so much more to please this school. And you totally just hit the nail on the head. If the school wants to make sure we are covered and dressed appropriately then they should buy the clothes for us. We are the so called Distraction and they can’t keep blaming us for. And shorts are never going to be the exact way they want us to have them. People are all different including shape, size, and there taste. Some people wouldn’t look right with the boyfriend type of shorts that are a longer length. And we girls getting a pink slip for seeing a bra strap is just wrong. We can’t even wear necessary things and get in trouble for them.
Chanele Davis • Oct 29, 2014 at 12:56 pm
Awesome article, stated very well! Couldn’t have said it any better!!
Bry Youtzy • Oct 29, 2014 at 10:52 am
I’ve always been frustrated with the school dress code. I understand our school needs limitations, but they should be enforced on both sides.
Kristen Myers • Oct 29, 2014 at 9:38 am
I completely agree with this article! Before school started this year I went out in search of clothes, specifically shorts, that would fit the dress code, but the issue was that they aren’t any. Shorts, skirts, and dresses that are finger tip length are hardly sold anymore and they are extremely hard to find. There are shorts and skirts that aren’t finger tip length, but still cover enough so that it doesn’t look inappropriate. The important part is to not be overkill with the dress code requirements, but to also not be so relaxed that girls dress like they are going to party. The dress code for guys should also be enforced more for things such as muscle shirts and sagging pants.
Claire Hillison • Oct 29, 2014 at 8:44 am
Great article. I really enjoyed reading this. This is a really interesting topic. Many of the dress code rules are outdated. However, I think that it is still important that there be a dress code for decency purposes.
Katie Dworak • Oct 28, 2014 at 2:44 pm
I agree that sometimes dress codes can be a bit much. On the same token though, one has to consider that school is an environment that has the intention of preparing us for the real world. The work place expects employees to dress modestly, so to some degree, that should be held up in schools as well.
George Gilbert • Oct 28, 2014 at 1:46 pm
Perhaps it is because I am a guy, but I find it hard to agree that the dress code is sexist. It is not too much to ask that everyone dresses in a modest fashion. It is not the local house-party or club; it is high school, and clothing choices should reflect that.
Rhianna Rohaly • Oct 28, 2014 at 11:17 am
I completely agree that the interpretation of the dress code is based on the opinion of the person. The dress code is more strict towards girls, as apposed to guys. I have seen plenty of guys who have sagging pants, but I have had friend that has been given a warning for wearing a three finger tank top. It all comes back to opinion and equality of enforcement for gender.
Maddie Wargins • Oct 28, 2014 at 11:03 am
I totally agree with your article! This pretty much just sums exactly how I feel about this rule! It would be interesting to read a guy’s perspective on the dress code.
Hope Miller • Oct 28, 2014 at 10:56 am
Truer words have never been spoken. Instead of telling girls to “cover up,” teach boys not to be judgmental, and learn to respect girls, and their bodies.
Princess Lex • Oct 28, 2014 at 10:07 am
This article basically is everything.
Sydney Keller • Oct 28, 2014 at 9:44 am
This article was very thought provoking to me. The dress code is so complex since every teacher and principal is capable of interpreting a student’s apparel in a different manner.
Promyse Mountz • Oct 28, 2014 at 9:36 am
I completely agree with this article. The dress code is more sexist than anything. It’s understandable that girls tend to have a little more to show than guys but that doesn’t mean that the rules should be enforced any less for the guys. You never really hear of guys being told to change into their gym clothes because their pants are practically around their ankles. It also seems unfair that if the top button of a girl’s blouse is unbuttoned she gets slapped with referrals and requests to “cover up”. However, if a guy does it, he’s one cool dude.
Michaela McQuaig • Oct 27, 2014 at 9:06 pm
I agree with Madeline and Rachel. I have never had a problem with the dress code. I feel that it is fairly reasonable- especially this year’s updated ones and that it is annoying to see girls walking down the halls wearing tight, short or low-cut things. Wear what you want to parties or whatever to attract boys, but nobody in school needs to see that. Girls beg for appreciation of their inner selves, yet they don’t allow the male population to see past the revealing outside. While it is hard to comply with the shorts rule, generally if your butt cheeks are hanging out of the back, PLEASE do not wear them to school! It is not cute!!! I agree with Rachel in that it has to be more equally enforced. There are several outfits that don’t get caught because of relaxed teachers, and a rare few that are written up unreasonably. But other than that, most teachers use good judgment and should not be afraid to call someone out on their violations of the dress code. Madeline’s statement was accurate and I agree with her wholeheartedly. Lastly, I believe there is a typo (a missing apostrophe out of the word “guy’s”) that may want to be fixed before going into print. Other than that, still a great article with an interesting perspective.
Erin Newcomer • Oct 27, 2014 at 1:03 pm
I think this article is amazing and so accurate. Sometimes I’ll see people breaking dress code but not getting in trouble yet when others wear the same thing they are reprimanded for it.I really like how this article lists all issues and thoughts its really well written too.
Rachel Day • Oct 27, 2014 at 9:15 am
The main problem with the dress code, in my opinion is the fact that it is not enforced equally. Whether or not you get written up may depend on whether or not you have a strict teacher, and that can be very confusing for students. The students that do want to obey the rules end up following rules that are unrealistic, while other students get away potential violations. The dress code needs to be more clear on what is allowed and what is not.
Kenleigh Peet • Oct 27, 2014 at 9:04 am
I totally agree! Some days I feel like I go to a school where they care more about the length of our shorts than the quality or our education. Instead of limiting what girls can wear, we should teach our boys to respect others and control themselves.
Taylor Killinger • Oct 26, 2014 at 7:48 pm
I agree with this article 100%.The dress code is something that is very confusing to not only the children but to their parents as well. I mean these are examples of situations that aren’t only going on in the high school but middle school as well. My sister who is 13 is also dealing with the same issues. It is all because the dress codes are set at the opinions of the teachers and does this really even make it a dress code? In my perspective it doesn’t because everyone’s opinion is going to be different and some teachers will write students up, while others will just let it go. I don’t think the dress code is helping but more hurting the school and creating an uncomfortable environment for not only students but teachers as well.
Madeline Winn • Oct 26, 2014 at 4:46 pm
I thought about this after I heard the new dress guidelines this year, but I came to the conclusion that they are reasonable. I think that the amount of coverage the school asks ensures what I think should be the standard of dress in an educational environment, without being overly harsh or strict.
Scott Bowser • Oct 26, 2014 at 1:03 am
This is an excellent piece. “Dang that’s one fine bra strap!” 😀
Alex Ruf • Oct 24, 2014 at 3:26 pm
I absolutely LOVE this article Lauren!!! I completely agree-everyone has their own idea about what is or isn’t appropriate, and the fingertip length rule/ bra straps rule is unrealistic. Even the no shoulders rule is a bit too much. Girls definitely shouldn’t be immodest, but they shouldn’t have to completely cover up just so guys can focus. Love love love this article Lauren!!! Great job!
Anna Hetherington • Oct 24, 2014 at 2:35 pm
Thank you for putting everyone’s frustration into words!